As he looked at me, he shared his leadership regret...

I had the opportunity to sit down with a business leader (and his team) whose business was in transition. It was a solid company with seven-figure revenue, a healthy growth margin, employees, a solid customer base and good brand equity in the industry; it is a body of work to be proud of. As we were discussing his business, his challenges, and the opportunities for the future, he stopped almost in mid sentence and looked at me.

 

As he continued to look at me he said with a tone of melancholy, "You know, if I have one regret as I look back at everything, it would be that I did not delegate enough; I could have grown so much more".  

 

A thin cloud of discomfort filled the room, and as I reflect on it, I am not sure if it was because of the vulnerable position he had taken, or that he was sharing such a regret, or that we have all been culpable of doing the same thing at one time or another. Regardless of the reason, we were quick to change the topic and the tone of the banter on him because we knew, as well as he did, it was a failing in leadership; be it his or our own.

It is a very rare thing indeed for anyone to accomplish anything of worth by themselves and there is almost always a team of people involved*. This is what I was reminded of as we parted company, and I greatly appreciate the business leader's time, insight and the reminder.

  • Hire the best people you can and hire them for more than the job you are currently discussing.
  • Look for trustworthiness in the people you hire and the people you want to work with. When the challenges get difficult and the expectations are high, sometimes trustworthiness is the only thing that ensures it all gets done.
  • Develop your people and the teams they work on. Although we all come with skills and competencies, more often than not, we need to be developed to take us where we want to go.
  • Delegate activities to people and your team. A leader who rolls up her sleeves and gets involved is always well thought of, and it goes without saying how important it is to really know your business, but in the end you can't do it all yourself. It is important to delegate and assign activities to people to prevent burnout, re-enforce a culture of trust, and a culture of growth and development; this will ensure all the work needed to be successful gets done.

When I ultimately look back on the body of work I am creating, I don't think I will have the same regret as this business leader, but with that said, I can think of a situation or two when I probably should have delegated. 

iamgpe

* I probably should just say nothing of worth gets accomplished without a team of people but then again there is always the exception to the rule.

 

 

Courage defined... as well as other enviable qualities.

 

 

cour·age /ˈkərij/ (noun): 

1. the ability to do something that frightens one:

 

 

 

Like many of us I recently got together with good friends to celebrated our friendships, ring in 2017 with champagne, and enter the new year with great anticipation of the things to come.

He had mentioned that he may bring a Jello fruit salad; not only did he bring it, he also made it.  It was a multicoloured, multilayer, Jello dessert that was literally bursting with fruit inside and liberally topped with whipped cream. I've known the creator of this fine dessert since grade school and to discover that this slightly edgy, slightly cranky, hard core finance and business leader had gone into the kitchen, took a chance, and made this Jello fruit salad was the true definition of courage. The testament of his character was out on the counter for all to see, and for me, it was something quite magnificent.

As the night progressed, and as Jello fruit salads are apt to do, it began to split and fruit spilled out in a great escape, leaving the salad somewhat unrecognizable. This by no means detracted from the courage it took to make it, the kindness to bring it, and the friendship to share his Jello fruit salad. In all the fun and excitement of the evening I never did get a chance to taste it, but I wanted to make sure he knew it was greatly appreciated. It was a wonderful evening and a great way to bring in the New Year.

Thank you to all of those I have the privilege to call my friend. All the best in 2017!

iamgpe

 

That which inspires...

It is that time of the year when a young man's thoughts turn to the next 365 days, the plans needed to get you where you want to go, and that which inspires. I just finished updating and reposting a blog entitled "Write something down... anything!" on the social media platform beBee which offers a perspective on the importance of having a plan and writing it down.

I will admit I have a soft spot for inspirational and motivational memes, and although I know that sometimes who actually "penned them" can be suspect, it doesn't make them any less impactful. I happen to have a fairly large collection of these memes, and as part of my 2017 planning process, I thought I would review them to see which (if any) would align nicely with my 2017 activities. And sure enough, I found some that did.

 

 

A reminder that I have to "own it"; in whatever I do and whatever happens. And although there will be many people that will help me on the way, I am the one who has to take responsibility through the good times and the bad. 

 

 

 

 

 

A reminder to push the boundaries and look past what people say I can do and can not do. Search out people who look at the world differently than myself and who have ideas that are different than mine.

 

 

 

 

 

Go outside my comfort zone, learn to be "comfortable with being uncomfortable", look to that which I don't understand, and break my habits. Work to see things I have not seen before.  

 

 

 

 

Anything worthwhile is not easy... I will be challenged, tested, and some days all there will be is my conviction and belief to keep going. There will always be the next day.

 

 

 

 

As the Tragically Hip said, "No dress rehearsal, this is our life". Just do it, embrace life, and enjoy the journey.

 

 

 

 

 

 

A reminder to move with conscious thought and design, have an understanding as to why I'm in the moment, and what I am doing. And with that said, this is what my 2017 Guiding Principles and plan look like.

 

 

 

 

The Vision for a fulfilled Life

Self confidence with myself and the world through mindful action and presence. (self)

Self awareness and knowledge through activity & travel, learning, knowledge and wisdom. (self)

Deep emotional connection with a “Life Companion”. (relationship/spirit)

Deep connection and Legacy for my Daughter. (relationship/spirit)

Satisfying circle of friends with personal and professional connections. (relationship/spirit)

A safe, comfortable and tranquil living space (environment)

Intimate work with a company or small circle of clients to help them grow into their goals. (environment)

2017 Goals and Objectives (Guiding Principles in Bold)

Self Confidence: Maintain an uninterrupted physical lifestyle. Study mindfulness. Expand networks and formal association membership.  

Self Awareness and Knowledge: Travel internationally at least once in 2017. Take at least one academic courses. Read one non fiction book each quarter.

Deep Emotional Connection: Develop a soulful “Life Companion” relationship. Continue to build an adult relationship with my daughter.

Satisfying Circle of Friends:  Continue initiating quarterly get-togethers. Assess toxic friendships and develop positive new friendships. 

Legacy: Continue activity to move Family Legacy plan forward.

A Safe, comfortable, tranquil living space: Maintain current situation until 2018.

Intimate work:  Continue GPE Stratagem as an income generator (> $XXXXX K). Continue Blogging activity (no less than twice a week). Expand social networking. Develop one entrepreneurial opportunity. Write a book.  

So there you have it. Have a wonderful 2017 wherever you plan to go.

iamgpe