The mysticism of success (an exercise in artistic license)

mys·ti·cal/ˈmistək(ə)l/ adjective — inspiring a sense of spiritual mystery, awe, and fascination. (edited)

Artistic licence is the primary driver and the result of a morning hike where the mind is allowed to wander — let’s see where this narrative lands.

I started hiking at Happy Valley at the beginning of the pandemic and found myself walking the 9 kms of trails through an old growth forest regularly; this particular morning was a beautiful fall day and it made the walk truly mystical with the active change of the seasons. My hiking agenda included working in my new barefoot hiking boots and understanding how I would handle using a weighted backpack — you see, Happy Valley (called Pinch Gulch back in the day by the men who logged the valley) is one of the places I test my fitness. I have improved dramatically since the first time I walked these trails — each year, progress has been made and my process is producing success.

At one point during the hike as I came to the top of a hill and stopped. This moment seemed so mystical, and as one does, I took a picture. As I continued my hike, I let my mind wander to the previous day.

I had found myself at UB Social Cafe & General Store (another mystical place in my mind) where the coffee is made with love, the food is fantastic and the atmosphere invites rich conversation — Anthony and Mary, the owners have created something wonderful. They survived Covid, have very loyal customers and continue to evolve their business to stay ahead of the changing times. As we tend to do, Anthony and I struck up a conversation that meandered. At one point, Anthony mentioned that once in a while people ask him what Mary does and he tells he doesn’t really know — he then has to explain he doesn’t really have to know the details; he simply knows that she is doing the right thing. To this I interjected, and said that he“trusts her” — our conversation continued as others joined it.

Eventually I said my goodbyes, with tomato sauce in hand, I made my way. I could not help think that UB Social is a magical place built on a shared goal and trust.

I finished my hike and was pleased with my progress and my new hiking boots and recognized the weekend was akin to mystical (and definitely inspirational). And as I do, I asked myself why?

Initially in my mind, this narrative was lining up into a neat set of guidelines all under an umbrella I was calling mystical — goals, trust, process and progress, and all important aspects in a nice formula for success. As I reflected though, the more realized I was just correlating some buzz-words and ideas I experienced and was now trying to force them in a nice package for digestion. I was missing something when it came to what I experienced on the weekend.

It was only as I started writing this that it became apparent there were two aspects of the weekend made it mystical and had become lost on me as rushed to create a nice piece of social media content.

The first aspect was I spent time in nature — a place that reminded me that I’m part of something that is much bigger than myself and although comfortable, well beyond my understanding. The second aspect came at UB Social, where through connection, I could share, as others shared with me — a place where I can find connection. Ultimately, it seems my ego didn’t get in the way on the weekend, and I welcomed the reminder that I’m part of something much bigger and grander than myself and I took the time to connect and listen to what others had to say, enjoyed their company, and took time to consider my place in this beautiful world.

Humility and connection are definitely part of the formula.

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